First time having sex and bleeding
Janet from Fairfield Age: 35. I am gentle, affectionate,kind,well-groomed, with a good figure and no less beautiful soul.
The corona is usually very stretchy and flexible, so even someone who has one that's not yet eroded enough to be totally out of the way can have pleasurable sex without bleeding from that tissue when they are aroused and lubricated enough, be that lubrication from their own bodies or from a bottle. The idea that women needed to prove a male partner or spouse got what they paid for through most of history, marriage involved financial exchanges and benefits when they married a virgin was the norm for most of history in many cultures, most certainly including Western culture. When it all comes down to it, they've never really been about women at all, but about the way men and the world at large decided women are or are not valuable based not only in sexism, but in ignorance about our bodies. Another possibility for people much older than you are is that menopause is playing a part. Because of that, and because historically, first sex for women was not with someone they were in love with or attracted to, we can also know that for some women who had bleeding at first intercourse through history, that was because they were not aroused, were scared, and often sex was everything from only out of obligation to barely consensual to completely nonconsensual and by force. Some of this was based in ignorance, and some in seriously hardcore sexism and viewing women, and our bodies, as property. That's unsurprising since bleeding from one specific act of intercourse rather than it happening with frequency often doesn't have any real medical relevance, and healthcare providers and sex educators -- if we've done our homework -- also pretty much have the answers we need already.
Kristal from Fairfield Age: 29. I would like to meet a guy for regular sex, one-time sex.
Bleeding In Vagina During Sex
Why some people do -- and for how long they do -- and some don't also varies. For most people with coronas, in childhood, very small openings to that membrane start to form and get larger over time, which is why year-old girls can have menstrual flow, even if they never had any kind of sex. Check out this passage from Deuteronomy 22 in the Old Testament , to get an idea of the weight of virginity in history, as well as what the consequences for a woman could be if she hadn't bled with intercourse. Because of all of those kinds of ideas and cultural precedents, bleeding was usually seen as something that better well happen, and because sometimes "proof" needed to be shown that a woman was, in fact, a virgin as she said she was. Because of an infection or other medical condition. Ideally, it should start by being something you or any other woman, as well as her partner very much want and feel ready for and comfortable with as a whole. If you're wondering why women would have sex like that when they didn't want to, remember that for many, marriage, or doing what men wanted, was a matter of life or death.
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Is bleeding heavily for the first time you have sex normal
If you're wondering why women would have sex like that when they didn't want to, remember that for many, marriage, or doing what men wanted, was a matter of life or death. Lastly, historically, women's desire for intercourse or any other kind of sex was largely ignored, sometimes even considered an impossibility. It probably goes without saying that the one "should" I'd put in this is that if you do have any of the inaccurate or value-based ideas about bleeding with first intercourse I talked about here, I do think you should consider ditching them. We say at least because in her study, some of the women she asked about it couldn't remember. Many older women actually knew full well, from experience, that this idea that bleeding always happens with intercourse was a farce, so new brides would often be prepared by other women on how to fake bleeding in case they didn't. Because of cervical tenderness during pregnancy , some pregnant people experience bleeding from intercourse, too. They have never been based in the reality of women's anatomy or sexual experiences.
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